If He Only Knew by Gary Smalley Gary Smalley explains a woman's deepest needs, shows a man how to meet those needs, and gives ten simple steps to strengthen any marriage. He helps men to understand not only how to respond to a woman's feelings, but also how to make her feel important. Using humorous and touching illustrations from his own life, as well as case histories and biblical examples, Gary Smalley maps a blueprint to a better marriage. 1991, First Printing, HarperCollins / Paperback, 194 pages Pages in unmarked condition. Cover has wear edges and corners. Cover has some creasing and chipping.